You Deserve Better…

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Hey guys,

One of the worst things we can say to ourselves is that we are a positive person…

Because we then assume that we are being positive in ALL areas of our life, and don’t actually realise it when we are actually being negative…

Because we think we aren’t doing that…

Because, we know better than that…

So, we don’t do anything about what’s not working, because we are assuming that we are okay…

Because, we’ve already worked on that….

So, there must be another reason it’s happening…

With Me, I am a very positive person, and I can find a positive in nearly every negative…

But, just like everyone else I can run negative programs…

And, I can get into the habit of being negative about certain things…

Even though I seriously know better!

These can be so unconscious that we are totally unaware that we are running these negative programs, so we think we are being positive…

We think we’ve worked on these things, but even though we may well have done a lot of work, unless we are consistently working on it, that isn’t a guarantee…

A good way to gauge if we are being positive or negative is to pay attention to what is happening around us…

If people aren’t listening to us, it’s because WE are not listening to ourselves…

If people aren’t respecting us, it’s because WE are not respecting ourselves…

If people are making us feel not good enough, it’s because WE are not feeling good enough…

If people are making us feel like we aren’t important, it’s because WE are not making OURSELVES important…

What’s happening around us is an indication of what is going on inside of us!!!

Our perceptions are a mirror of what we need to work on…

If things aren’t working out the way that we want, WE are the ones getting in the way!!!

Because, We have deserving issues…

If people aren’t treating us well…

It’s because We have deserving issues…

It’s not because of this reason or that reason…

It’s because we need to keep reminding ourselves that We Deserve Better!

We may think we know that We deserve better…

We may have convinced ourselves that we do deserve better…

But unconsciously we don’t really FEEL like we deserve better?

So, the Affirmation for this month is…

‘I Deserve Better!’

And when things aren’t working, keep reminding Yourself…

Because the reality is, You DO deserve Better!

And now is a really, really good time to remember that!

Play and see where it takes you 🙂 

Many blessings, always

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Yvonne x