You Can’t Please Everyone…

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Hey guys,

There is a saying…

‘I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failing is to try to please everybody!’

I’m sorry to tell you this, but not everyone is going to like you!

And you know what, most of the time it isn’t even about you, it’s generally because they don’t like THEMSELVES!

THEY don’t feel like THEY are good enough…

THEY don’t feel like THEY are smart enough, pretty enough, confident enough, tall enough, short enough, rich enough, successful enough, worthy enough, loveable enough, ENOUGH etc, etc, etc…

Which is THEIR stuff that they project onto us!

Trying to please them, to change who we are to be who we think they want us to be won’t work, because they will still have THEIR stuff…

The had THEIR stuff before we walked into the room, while we were in the room, and after we leave the room and they will keep it until THEY work on THEIR stuff!

And part of our lesson is to step out of THEIR stuff and stop looking at ourselves and judging ourselves through their eyes…

They have come to us for a reason though…

When YOU feel like YOU aren’t good enough, you will draw these people to you, but their lesson is to help you to realise that You are MORE than enough just as you are!

Every lesson is about self worth and when you learn the lesson, they either start treating you better or they fade into the background.

Instead of taking it all personally, use their reactions to you as a means of seeing what you need to work on within yourself…

If people aren’t treating you well, how are You treating yourself?

If people aren’t listening to you, are You listening to yourself?

If people aren’t respecting you, are You respecting yourself?

If people are making you feel like you aren’t important, where are You on Your list of priorities?

Use them as a Mirror to see what you need to work on within yourself…

We need to be consistent though, or the lessons will be repeated.

When they are repeated, you haven’t failed, you just need to get back on track!

Do the things that please you, nurture yourself, honour yourself, listen to yourself and start the process of being Your own Best Friend!

That’s another step towards JOY, our purpose…

Play and see where it takes you 🙂

Many blessings for this moment, this day, this week, this month, this year and always…

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Yvonne x