What You Give Out…

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Hey guys,

There is a saying…

‘What You Give Out Comes Back By Three!’

Which means that if we point the finger at someone, 3 people will point the finger at us…

If we lie to someone, 3 people will lie to us…

If we cheat someone, 3 people will cheat us…

If we disrespect someone, 3 people will disrespect us…

The same goes in reverse, so when we give out good stuff, it will come back to us by 3 as well…

If we give out really good stuff, it comes back 10 fold!

The important thing to know about this though is…

To NEVER EVER expect it back from where we give it to!!!

I’ve been working with a lot of people this last month who have been holding onto massive amounts of hurt, disappointment, anger, resentment, grief, sadness, despair because they have given and given and given to someone and they now realise that they really haven’t been getting anything back.

When they have needed something, this person hasn’t been available or outright refused to help them, which has been totally confusing for the giver.

The giver often says…

‘I don’t understand, I have given them so much, I have done so much for them and now they can’t even help me?…’

Sometimes we expect that people think and do things the same way we do and that because we are givers, we expect that they will be givers too…

Because we do the right thing, we expect that they will do the right thing…

Because we think about others and are considerate, we expect others will think about us and be considerate…

But not everyone is like that, some people are programmed to be takers and they don’t even consider giving.

Sometimes they can’t give back because they have nothing to give…

Sometimes they don’t give back because they don’t even think to give back…

Sometimes they don’t give back because WE have TRAINED them to KNOW we always have it covered, so they don’t even think about us…

Sometimes they take just because they can…

Which leads to all the hurt, disappointment, anger etc which when we hold onto it, negatively impacts on US!

We need to remember that when they don’t give back it’s not a reflection on us or our worthiness, it is a reflection on THEM!

This then gives us the opportunity to work out for ourselves whether giving to them is actually helping them to move forward, or helping them to stay stuck…

That is where WE get to be more selective about what we give to who and when…

That is where we take OUR power back…

What we give out does come back by 3, so keep giving out good stuff, but don’t expect it back from where you are giving it to!

 Instead, this is a really good time to work with the Affirmation…

‘I am open and receptive to all good!’

To allow that good to come from all different sources…

Play and see where it takes you 🙂

Many blessings, always

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Yvonne x